A few days ago I read those lines and for a while I was frozen because It was really a very deep quote and it truly touched me. I couldn't stop myself from writing something about it, as I know in life sometimes some people face that type of strong feeling that we are living with a person without love.
Mostly it happens when some people don't know the proper meaning of care, understanding, respect and values of togetherness etc. If someone is in any relationship but doesn’t care about the other person’s thoughts, at that time it's very difficult to build and maintain a strong relationship between them.
Sometimes we just live our life knowing that we are making sacrifices and may ask ourselves, “why?”. Is it because of some fears, or perhaps for some other reasons. If anyone want to make a true relationship with another, then they need to understand each other. There's no need to pass judgement that the other is wrong and we are perfect. You don't have any right to judge others.
Someone once said, “don’t hold your relationship so tight that it can't take a breath and don't hold your relationship so loose that it can run away easily”. Here we have to manage a good balance level in our life.
If you need to improve the quality of your life with your loved one you should do it the right way and make the decision about what is the priority in your life? Prove to them that they have a very valuable place in your life. Don't give them a chance to think that they can live without you. Don't give them a chance to choose other priorities.
If someone wants to keep a relationship strong, first you need to dedicate the proper time to it. Spend some more time with each other and try to understand each other's sentiments. Love, care, understanding, trust, happiness etc., one just needs to learn the absolute values of these emotions.
When starting any interaction with another, the key point is to remember is * mutual understanding.* If you aren't able to recognize your loved one’s pain from their eyes so it's difficult for them to bear that type of relationship, as it's not for some minutes or some hours, it's for whole life.
I've observed one more thing in human nature. If you follow all instructions, advices, rules of a person, without have some equality and mutual respect, after a little time they will change their attitude towards you, and start to think they are superior and the better one in the relationship. They always put you down in front others. It’s very devastating.
When you feel like this for your dear one, at that time you think, why are we together without any love and respect? But sometimes for our culture and sometimes for our other family members we can't take action on any decision, and we feel pressured or coerced to live that life….
Healthy Relationship= You, Me and We
By Jyoti Sunil